Daddy Daddy, as I would fondly “hail” you and you would break out in a wide grin, with your customary response, “Hello Mama” or “Hello Baby” and a big hug in tow. You sure gave really good bear hugs. I will miss our warm and hearty discussions. You could talk about a lot of things – such a wide variety of topics – family, culture, tennis, the state of economy, US politics.
You were so witty and left us in stitches when you delivered your “jabs” with such love, warmth and fun. You were such a fine dresser, always looking sharp and groomed through all the years. I always described you as my funky father-in-law! You had such a heart of generosity, always willing to help out. You had a gift for everyone who came visiting, and they all left with a smile at your thoughtfulness.
Thank you for always encouraging me. You had so much courage and made me feel like there was nothing I couldn’t do, if I leaned in with courage. Thank you for truly seeing me and giving me the room to thrive. For my milestone birthday this year, you shared such heartfelt thoughts and deep prayers, almost as if you knew we would be here today. I am grateful for the time we had! Rest well Daddy! We miss you!
Love,
Ijeoma Bassey
